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Developmental Skills and Activities 3 to 4 Years

Developmental Skills and Activities 3 to 4 Years

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Developmental Skills and Activities 3 to 4 Years

Development during the preschool years encompasses a broad range of normal. The following checklist of skills depicts what we expect most children to develop during a specific range. Remember that children develop at different rates and this is only a guide to help you determine what skills are appropriate to work on with your child.

  • Developmental Skills

    • Imitates adults and playmates
    • Spontaneously shows affection for familiar playmates
    • Understands concept of "mine" and "his/hers"
    • Expresses affection openly
    • Expresses a wide range of emotions
    • By 3, separates easily from parents
    • Objects to major changes in routine

    Supporting Activities

    • Provide a safe, peaceful, supervised environment.
    • Set up cooperative play situations (kicking a ball back and forth; working with another child to "cook" and serve an imaginary meal to dolls or adults).
    • Help child solve social problems ("Tell him you don't like....).
    • Describe desired behavior and have consistent expectations for behavior. ("Please walk next to me when we are in the store.")
    • Respond joyfully to child's jokes.
    • Give child enough time to dress, toilet, and eat independently.
  • Developmental Skills

    • Understands consequences of an event
    • Begins to understand time concepts
    • Recognizes and matches colors
    • Begins to classify and group objects (by size, shape, color)
    • Talks in short sentences and joins some sentences together
    • Sings, learns finger plays
    • Makes mechanical toys work
    • Matches an object in her hand or room to a picture in a book
    • Plays make-believe with dolls, animals, and people
    • Sorts objects by shape and color
    • Completes puzzles with three or four pieces
    • Understands concept of "two"
    • Follows a two- or three-part command
    • Recognizes and identifies almost all common objects and pictures
    • Understands most sentences
    • Understands placement in space ("on," "in," "under")
    • Can say name, age, and sex
    • Uses pronouns (I, you, me, we, they) and some plurals (cars, dogs, cats)
    • Strangers can understand most of her words

    Supporting Activities

    • Set limits on behavior and explain why they are necessary. (Running into the street is not safe.")
    • Use appropriate words to describe past or future events (today, tomorrow, before, after, next).
    • During story-time ask child simple questions about the story.
    • Encourage child to sort and match objects during routine tasks. ("Which things do we need to take a bath?" "Where do the forks go?" "What other things could you wear on your feet?")
    • Teach songs and finger plays.
    • Talk about sequence of events, tell what comes next.
    • Provide access to a computer with appropriate children's software. Use it together.
  • Developmental Skills

    • Begins to draw people and animals, including head and some other body parts
    • Manipulates nontoxic modeling clay (making snakes and balls)
    • Stacks small blocks and names structure
    • Cuts with scissors
    • Completes simple puzzle (6 to 8 pieces)
    • Makes up-and-down, side-to-side, and circular lines with pencil or crayon
    • Turns book pages one at a time
    • Screws and unscrews jar lids, nuts, and bolts
    • Turns rotating handles

    Supporting Activities

    • Provide table toys (puzzles, beads, blocks).
    • Provide large sheets of blank, unlined paper.
    • Allow child to paint driveway with water colors or plain water.
    • Offer a variety of writing utensils (Paint brushes, markers, colored pencils, crayons).
    • Allow child to use materials independently-do not push child to "make" something.
    • Provide material for child to manipulate (nontoxic modeling clay, finger paint, shaving cream, sand).
  • Developmental Skills

    • Walks on a line
    • Balances on one foot for several seconds
    • Begins to hop on one foot
    • Throws a ball a few feet with one hand
    • Catches a bounced ball with two hands
    • Rides a tricycle independently
    • Uses a slide independently
    • Climbs well
    • Kicks ball
    • Bends over easily without falling

    Supporting Activities

    • Make obstacle course for child to maneuver through (over chairs, under table).
    • Play catch with a soft ball, increasing the distance gradually.
    • Play catch with balls and beanbags of various sizes.
    • Create a tricycle path with props such as stop signs and drive-through windows.
    • Play Follow the Leader, including challenging movements
    • Play music for dancing.

Contact Info
Leigh Austin
Director
407-317-3200 x 2763

Kathie Anderson
Program Specialist
407-317-3503
 

Helpful Resources

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*Welcome to the World: An Overview of Your Growing Child
Florida Department of Education (FLDOE)