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Developmental Skills and Activities 2 to 3 Years

Developmental Skills and Activities 2 to 3 years

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Developmental Skills and Activities 2 to 3 Years
Development during the preschool years encompasses a broad range of normal. The following checklist of skills depicts what we expect most children to develop during a specific range. Remember that children develop at different rates and this is only a guide to help you determine what skills are appropriate to work on with your child.

  • Developmental Skills

    • Imitates behavior of others, especially adults and older children
    • More aware of herself as separate from others
    • More excited about company of other children
    • Demonstrates increasing independence
    • Begins to show defiant behavior
    • Separation anxiety increases toward midyear then fades

    Supporting Activities

    • Continue to provide a comfort and safe, peaceful environment.
    • Praise child when a child indicates toilet needs.
    • Play simple games with child (Ring around the Rosie).
    • Help child play dress up.
    • Develop special interactions or "I love you" rituals (special tickle, special nickname).
    • Respect child's expression of independence, but with limits (allow child to paint with water on sidewalk but not on inside walls).
  • Developmental Skills

    • Says several single words (by 15 to 18 months)
    • Uses simple 2-4 word phrases (by 18 to 24 months)
    • Begins to make choices (which shirt to wear, whether to play inside or outside)
    • Points to object or picture when it's named for him
    • Recognizes names of familiar people, objects, and body parts
    • Repeats words overheard in conversation

    Supporting Activities

    • Listen to and talk with your child.
    • Read picture books for 10 minutes each day with your child and talk about the pictures.
    • Point out colors of objects in pictures.
    • Give simple answers to child's questions.
    • Label shelves and toy boxes/bins with pictures and name of toy.
    • Sing songs and nursery rhymes.
  • Developmental Skills

    • Uses spoon and cup independently
    • Turns handle to open door
    • Completes simple insert puzzles (4-6 pieces)
    • Unscrews lids
    • Builds 6 to 8 block tower
    • Snips paper with scissors
    • Scribbles on his or her own
    • Turns over container to pour out contents
    • Might use one hand more often than the other

    Supporting Activities

    • Provide simple puzzles for child to complete.
    • Provide child with small safety scissors and paper to snip.
    • Provide sand, pudding, or finger paint for writing with finger.
    • Provide many containers with toys to open and close.
    • Provide a busy box or purse with simple hooks to undo, compartments to open and other things for children to manipulate.
  • Developmental Skills

    • Rides and steers wheeled toys
    • Pushes or pulls door open
    • Walks up stairs holding rail
    • Pulls toys behind her while walking
    • Carries large toy or several toys while walking
    • Begins to run
    • Stands on tiptoe
    • Kicks a ball
    • Climbs onto and down from furniture unassisted

    Supporting Activities

    • Arrange for child to play games with others (London Bridge is Falling Down, Tag).
    • Encourage child to practice throwing balls and beanbags.
    • Provide practice in riding a tricycle.
    • Show child how to jump over a chalk mark or a hose laid flat on the ground.
    • Run with the child in safe places.
    • Let child roll on grass or sand.

*Welcome to the World: An Overview of Your Growing Child
Florida Department of Education (FLDOE)